The Talk Pronunciation: /ðə tɔːk/ (thuh TAWK) Part of Speech: Noun
Definition: A vital conversation in Black American households where parents teach children how to survive encounters with racism, law enforcement, and now U.S. Immigration and Customs Enforcement (ICE). The Talk is about practicing high internal discipline for safety, not about being subservient or cowardly. Parents stress respectful language, keeping hands visible, avoiding sudden movements, and narrating actions when dealing with police or ICE officers. Discussion may include dress and behavior to avoid suspicion. The Talk started in slavery and Jim Crow times. It builds self-worth, racial pride, and skills for navigating a biased society.
Synonyms: Survival talk, police talk, racial socialization
Example: Before his son learned to drive, James had The Talk with him, stressing the importance of staying calm and compliant, within reason, during any police or ICE stop.